How & Why to Write a Thank You

Few people write thank-you notes these days, and fewer still  give a verbal thank-you or even an acknowledgment.  Nevertheless, we owe people that much if they do anything at all for us.  It's part of a skill-set called, "good manners."  What are manners, anyway?  Simply, using good manners shows consideration for other people.

Those people who would like to write a thank you note are often at a loss as to what to say, so let me help you out.  Think about what is in your heart and let that spill out.  It doesn't have to be long. 

Here's a basic format:

• ​Dear _______________
• Thank you for ______________
  
• I appreciate it because _________________Thank them for their thoughtfulness or generosity, or whatever it is.
• How has this made a difference to you? (a help, an encouragement...)
  
• Closing (Sincerely, Warm Regards...)

See? Simple...4-5 sentences

Now...you write a thank-you because you are grateful for something, but there are benefits for you as well.  First, you will have made someone else feel special, and they will think well of you.  Secondly, you will have followed the Golden Rule (Matthew 7:12) Third, you set a good example.  Fourth, if you like to do crafts such as rubber stamping or painting, you can apply those skills to the making of "Thank You" cards. Lastly, for your children, it teaches them all those things, plus it is good handwriting practice.

Writing isn't only about writing essays.  It's about communicating!  So now...go teach this to your children.